tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9583755967565075592024-02-19T22:51:17.268+07:00imagine :Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.comBlogger127125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-7326182154675029472011-01-22T01:37:00.004+07:002011-01-22T02:25:27.287+07:00A Long Overdue FarewellI haven't been checking in with my blogs lately. I don't know if it was because I didn't have time, or simply didn't want to make time for it. In fact, my bf was the one who reminded me that I have this account and that I kind of ditched it several months ago. Recognize this upfront, as a farewell post. You may or may not care, but this is what this is. So here goes. <br /><br />The first thing I did when I logged in, was to check on everybody. How are they doing? Are they still writing? What’s new? Then I realized, everybody’s…moving on. I came across posts and posts about everybody’s life. Where have I been? Have I been working? Nope. Most of my closest friends know I’ve been meaning to, well, linger here for a while until I feel I’m ready to devour paperworks and desk-duties as a corporate slave. <br /><br />Have I been happy?<br /><br />Now there’s a loaded question. Have I? I’ve been... trying to be, I guess. I do laugh on a daily basis. I cry less than I did last year. For instance, I haven’t whimpered as much in this account for… I don’t know, six months?<br /><br />But do they count as the indicators of being happy?<br /><br />Let’s count the factorials here : <br /><br />During the past months, in which I have been abandoning my virtual life in a blog, I’ve discovered new loves. A love for my oldest and newest friends. For once in a gazillion years, I feel wanted again. I feel like I was exactly where I should be. I should be happy for that. And I am. <br /><br />I have accomplished so much : academically, socially, creatively, and in so many other ways I could possibly imagine. I’ve managed to graduate with a 3.35 GPA. I’ve done more creative works in the past six months than I did in the total of 21 years I’ve lived and breathed art. I finally know what my future’s going to look like. I should be happy for that. And I am. <br /><br />I’m finally heading somewhere in my relationship. I’ve learned to set some boundaries for myself, define who I am and be accounted for it, I’m an independent woman in a very dependent relationship. That oughta count for something. And it does. <br /><br />But something is still missing. I’m still left hanging in the middle of the night, mind wandering everywhere, reminiscing the past. What am I still searching for? Because the knight in shining whatever is either here already, or he’s never going to come at all. The fairy tale I keep telling myself to help me get by is still a fairy tale. So here’s what I think I’ve been doing for the past months : I’ve been selfish. <br /><br />Because this blog, is all about me. In disregard of everybody else’s feelings and concerns, I have made this blog the best and worst part of me, and it can’t be both at the same time. So I hereby, cutting a mole in my life. This blog account has managed to accompany me through time travels, emotional roller-coasters, and everything else in between. <br /><br />Yes, I was happy. But I was never content. I’ve learned to be selfish, now I need to learn to be otherwise. <br /><br />So good bye. <br /><br />Who knows maybe one day I’ll be worthy of your time. <br /><br /><br />PS. Thank you for the time travels, Alana. Scents of him will forever loiter in the back of my mind.Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-4193298660346680692010-06-24T21:56:00.006+07:002010-06-24T23:04:18.715+07:00Before Everything<div style="text-align: justify;">It has been almost a month, since Al went from being an excellent student to an unemployed couch potato. She couldn't say she was bored, but there was really not much she could do. She usually just sit around all day, watching whatever is on TV, or doing the occasional designing projects--which don't come very often either. She began to have this plentiful of spare time, and that means, she began to have the opportunity to reminisce. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">That day, her thoughts wander few years back, about a long conversation she had over an afternoon walk in some strange town with not-so-strange man. No, she was no Julie Delpy and he was no Ethan Hawke. But the situation came very close to the one they shared. Come to think of it, the voice... the deep and heavy voice, resembles much of his voice. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">"People are strange, you know," Al strolled down the street in her loose white top and worn-out jeans. It was warm that day. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">"Strange how?" he asked. He was texting, but it was as if he was so ready to get involved in this conversation as it started.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: right;"><i>"I mean, we are socially-induced creatures, right? So there's no way we can live without one another. We will need our friends, our family, and all of our actions depend on their actions and their thoughts, their point of view. Even though we declare we don't care about what they say, even <b>not caring</b> is a response of society's expectations toward our traits, right? We desperately need other people to justify our very existence in this world," </i>Al's eyes wandered toward an ice cream stall across the street. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">"Yes, of course. Social-constructivism. I exist because everybody says I do." he sneaked his phone into his jeans pocket.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">"Exactly! But the strange thing is," Al paused. "...we get really tired of each other sometimes."</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Her legs made a right turn, despite the fact that she didn't know where she was going. But he didn't seem to mind. He would have enjoyed getting lost, if that means he could spend more time with her. </div><div><br /></div><div>"If I were to make up a disorder to explain who I am, I would say I'm a compulsive competitor." Al chuckled. "Like, I have this huge urge to satisfy myself by being better than everybody else. Even a tiny reward like a simple compliment would be my booster. You know what I mean?"</div><div><br /></div><div>"Some might say you're an overachiever." He smiled gently. </div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: right;"><i>"No, that's the point. I'm not. I don't come top in class, I don't excel in every subject I could put my hands on--hell, I don't even put my hands on much subjects. But I have this </i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><i>constant need to do great</i></span><i> in things others can do okay. The need to be praised, to look good. It's... </i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-large;"><i>exhausting</i></span><i>."</i></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">"Aren't we supposed to feel the way you do? I mean, us youths, who have this big burden on our shoulders to do better than our predecessors did?" he brushed her hand a little, to make her know they were turning left. </span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">"If we are, I think it's sick," she said. "You know, I used to have these terrible nightmares in which I am an assassin or an outlaw, or something, just running and running and running like something was chasing me. But then I came to this alley, a dead-end, with brick walls around me... and there was a person. That person was kneeling in front of me, I couldn't see the face clearly. Then I reached to my back and the next thing I knew I was pointing a gun to that very face. And I pulled the trigger. Just like that."</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">"That's pretty haunting," commented he. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">"Yeah, and I always woke up sweating and my heart was pounding hard. Like I was really running, and the gunshot I heard really came from my gun." she could feel the nightmare creeping up to her vividly.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">"Maybe every one of us has this sort of reality we always would want to run from. I have this dream of running, too, every once in a while. And I'd like to think it's normal. Because, face it, life's full of shit. It doesn't always come around the way we want. Sometimes it even goes, thousands of miles from what we expected it to be," he walked slower, like he was deep in thought. "I think we are entitled to run away sometimes. Calm ourselves."</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: right;"><i>"But what if, it's not the reality I'm running away from? It's the dream. The ideal world created by society?" Al spoke in a soft voice. "What if, I'm running away from society itself? From my friends? It's like, </i><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-large;">I am in fact an outlaw</span></i><i> because I didn't do what their ideal norms expect me to do?"</i></div><div style="text-align: right;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">"Then the best you can do is try. When you get really tired, then you outcast yourself. Re-prioritize. Create your own comfort zone, and succumb to it. Until you're ready and you'll start from scratch." he shrugged. "Though as cruel as it is, the world doesn't wait for you to get back on your feet."</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">"Yes. So this is what I do. Alone. Because nobody else can feel what I feel, and I have no right to expect otherwise. All we can do is take care of ourselves." </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">They came to an intersection. It was getting dark and it got pretty quiet. Out of nowhere, Al felt a hand holding hers. He murmured something she couldn't make out, then he guided her across the road. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">***</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Al sighed. The sun felt gentle on her face. She planted her feet into the short grass below. She shut her eyes, reliving every scene once again. She was running. With him. She opened her eyes. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">And there he was.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">The voice.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">In flesh.</div>Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-66205140445075851992010-06-08T21:57:00.005+07:002010-06-08T22:46:01.768+07:00Color Me WildHow much of a difference can two people have until they're just plain... different? If God were a fan of uniformity, wouldn't he had just create clones of Adam instead of pairing him with Eve so they can mate and produce a variety of children?<div><br /></div><div>Forgive me for being forward, but God loves colors. It is proven in all His creations, all the different types of insects, of mammals, of fishes, of bacterias, of everything! Then why, oh why, do we defy God's will to preserve those differences in one big harmony that completes one another in His grand design?</div><div><br /></div><div>Al acknowledge within her heart that every single piece in this giant puzzle is unique. This, she didn't learn the easy way. It took most of her high school era, throughout her college life. There's no low or high, things are just different. But like all the differences there is, this piece of mind she couldn't share with everyone else. </div><div><br /></div><div>A certain part of her life insists to be more like her. It's flattering, sure, but at the same time, it's bothering her. Because now she has to live with discontentment <i>coloring</i> her world. She doesn't go well with discontentment. For her it's just a relentless journey that leads nowhere. </div><div><br /></div><div>"Why would anyone try so hard to be someone else, when they can use their time and energy trying to be the best of themselves?" she whispered to the void. </div><div><br /></div><div>As the gentle fall breeze strikes her cheek, she tries to understand it all. "And why do I have to be the one preaching when it's really not my responsibility?"</div><div><br /></div><div>She thought about the voice again. Pan. He hasn't been around. No matter how hard she tries to think of him, he never shows up. It's like, he evaporated through the air she breathes and becomes a part of herself, always telling her what to do. But she'd like to hear his voice again. To know that certain things she knows are actually real. </div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: right;"><i>Why am I always the one to blame? To take responsibility? To be tough, to be... able? For once in my life I want to take a back seat, to see where the driver's going and really trust him that he would bring me to places I will most enjoy. Sometimes, there's a great chance I really desire to be taken care of, for a change.</i></div><div style="text-align: right;">-Alana Stidenick<i> </i></div>Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-58674069750971973362010-06-06T00:53:00.002+07:002010-06-06T01:14:03.939+07:00The Lovely BonesIt's easy to spot one's flaw when you're standing in a distance, right? <div>For Al, it was as easy to spot her own flaws and derangements. She never thought she would be this bitter poison, going around hating people because they seem slightly more successful than she is. No, she was always optimistic. She never needed the strange colorful dream she had a couple of months ago. But then again, everything feels overwhelmingly different now. It was as if, somehow, she had managed to destroy herself, blame everyone else for it, and stay put. </div><div><br /></div><div>"I don't understand the state I am in," she said to someone, once, as she quietly whispered to herself, "who are you?"</div><div><br /></div><div>It's like losing directions, like standing in the middle of an opening, the sky above and endless grass field below. With no limitations, no street signs, no trees, no stars, nothing to guide her. Not even a voice. That voice she had been waiting to hear, but never did for quite a while. For a split second, she thought she was angry. The promise he had made for her, seemed to have been flushed down the drain. </div><div><br /></div><div>But no.</div><div>She's not angry. She's just... at loss. </div><div><br /></div><div>It's just like grieving, you can't really get yourself up but the world doesn't have the intention of waiting for you either. And she had never thought, that change would be this perplexing. </div>Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-76423402717015785422010-03-28T21:55:00.008+07:002010-03-28T22:31:12.006+07:00Observing the Observers<div style="text-align: justify;">So, I attended Indonesia's 1st Hot Air Balloon Adventure at Sentul City yesterday (27/3). Crowdy, yet cheerful. There were only two balloons on ground when I get there, whereas the other 16 were airborne. I love seeing the colors against the clear blue sky. The anticipation of waiting the 16 balloons to get back and be displayed on a corner. It was pretty hot, I tell you, I had to squint my eyes very hard every time I got out of the shade. My bf was sweating his ass off. I'm sure everybody felt the same heat. It was only 8 o'clock and it felt like 12.</div><div style="text-align: justify;">There's something else I notice from the crowd. The way everybody was holding their cameras, man, it could as well be a camera exhibition. So out of the mere excitement of seeing a lot--and I mean A LOT--of cameras, my dad offered a suggestion. Why not observe the observers? And so I did.</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Here are some of them.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhpN9-YH_x6zvaDN9J-FTTH_1o6bat0wO4q0PYwJgHSMBtSZ8f_4zzQq8r1ZW_uBgkfSuEbtxmMuNabwjhb5_Gape55Zc5JE9DGg0XqfmpfZ_2opTw4PDxiUEruua8KO4z4rcaTOB-Olmk/s320/IMG_7087.jpg" style="text-align: left;display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; cursor: pointer; width: 214px; height: 320px; " border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5453702029312512274" /><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjABFqi-agfn9xI8BKm6YLBnepIvJRtiTc0Z5c95L_mH36pr6ofJW-InRH2DrpLy6FpNHJThIOm5pRh2EpPRPGZk6Ci733rLU-wQYH-jVLyULPxNnoQS8ZKPkC-UWOFUrCIHS3MpGf_ydI/s320/IMG_7088.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 214px; height: 320px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5453702393557134898" /><div style="text-align: center;"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhVBdB0h98AipEABBNcc_3mYDaOXi23L-pVOrZToGrtkcl_IT4y6bY5UbmDDo06IulwX8FfMxg67sXrPCTyBwOLybupb9J4rb-StKnFP-veSU8QADjOWgGUDb24FgDNUPHqtwYvnwcBp_w/s320/IMG_7092.jpg" style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 214px; height: 320px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5453703803799964210" /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEha41G0diucY-m6mJlpPOyzI7Kzyphf3x7MsgrQIAEaZn3x7Pwc8b3HScF_SNBAzy8CESlCvEh9pdAoY5WVrW8hQA8cpLXOkGtwBNXpFpLdv11j5Q1Zz6alkp7BgLuXAnjNIw-2LugtKgw/s320/IMG_7097.jpg" style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 214px; height: 320px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5453703812432868498" /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgfz__OFkbs4_7g4PInEXhdNU2yr74pyv6cr2Sxc8aln8RC2RS7e4bTx74xyuQ42fsDlcrGTUn_DC5Iuk7173MN4ODfgGVFBwTzBATd5O0IdrrrIJHdUP5cdNj10AiSnIaZ3TgxshF4mps/s320/IMG_7098.jpg" style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 214px; height: 320px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5453703817884876754" /></div><div><div style="text-align: center;"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhi2vkUnWVCwmmBt45zL1wrQyECLIE40WRBrAOhTYSoao18bzGpPNcK7vA24hIUalOhAJspl4R89K2wKDr3XuEYfZPQ1qGe_EidM7Ch7tZ-aEk7MTB9WmCfiHQwAb00zvL464aH53aZUBk/s320/IMG_7133.jpg" style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5453703829196220354" /></div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgovMk8Ol305s2TYYa65eGGrcotmqmPR_IKqjMud5g0k_9FaLTLxqDgKSTogeB1L1CHT6a7QQM_28Rrjcc-hm5kszXP5chEvTjIoWewn36qnEILFu82otIKgzd5axi0pWg0K-FN83-gOn8/s320/IMG_7144.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5453705295946423666" /><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgx2rY89Ovj1onTZy7WRJ-wjGYMErgyuIZLii6pNmQCEIqQrXYde4aQoaoM-YPEKZE_B3yNT_Zu8R2u35bEqGiris-Xgx4LlGifyGxSZbmLipF7O79McNguaCnZc9gk7zWkvMqhlRYCXDM/s320/IMG_7168.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 214px; height: 320px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5453705336044110306" /><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div></div><div style="text-align: center;">... and this is my very own personal favorite</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjP34yP14joePL70ZNpeW96tNqDLCyY6-QoMikkf319X4Ezr2j6JViqJ2DB5Z4lj6FZk_oAgCMHxy5ZrBmRvDGf7EjvxwFjZ_NXd7IK6BEfGtjZ36EZLEjGdzdB6dHyCKlQy4jWWD4DIaI/s1600/IMG_7257.jpg"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjP34yP14joePL70ZNpeW96tNqDLCyY6-QoMikkf319X4Ezr2j6JViqJ2DB5Z4lj6FZk_oAgCMHxy5ZrBmRvDGf7EjvxwFjZ_NXd7IK6BEfGtjZ36EZLEjGdzdB6dHyCKlQy4jWWD4DIaI/s400/IMG_7257.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5453706375526356850" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 267px; height: 400px; " /></a></div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">What a weekend. I get to see the parade of balloons, spend time with my loved ones, and freshen my eyes with beautiful, beautiful gadgets. ;D</div><div><br /></div><div>Until next time,</div><div>Kalista. </div>Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-55536143320715414752010-03-26T21:18:00.003+07:002010-03-26T22:14:37.137+07:00Pan<div style="text-align: justify;">If Al said she never think about that crazy guy she met that one afternoon, she'd be lying. No matter how hard she tried, he was all she thought about. No matter how preoccupied she was with her life in college. But he was always there. In the corner of her eyes, in the back of her mind. He was there. With bright colorful hair and dark blue eyes. Sometimes she swore she could hear his voice. No, not the cheery one. The deep, heavy voice. Yet she hadn't seen him again. She had walked that narrow path every day for quite some time but he wasn't there. </div><div style="text-align: justify;">Until that day.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Al saw a balloon floating above her as she walked the same path she walked yesterday. And the day before. And the day before. A bright red balloon. Al didn't want to follow it, but it went where she went. Almost like him. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Exactly like him. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Because there he was. At the end of the path, with his hands behind his back, a mysterious smile on his face, and his colorful outfit. Al didn't expect to see him, but now that she did, it almost felt.. familiar. </div><div style="text-align: justify;">"Hello," he greeted. </div><div style="text-align: justify;">Unsure, Al stayed quiet. </div><div style="text-align: justify;">"Oh, don't act like we don't know each other, now." he started his last ritual, moving around, circling Al like a carousel. </div><div style="text-align: justify;">"I still don't know your name." Al stated.</div><div style="text-align: justify;">and with that, he stopped, grabbed her hand without giving her time to react, and pulled her.. upward. Or downward. Or sideways. Al couldn't decide which way they were moving. She felt her head spinning. Her body was tingling all over the place. There was a sense of suffocation in her throat, her heart began to pound really fast. She closed her eyes, but she could still see hints of colors from all over the place. A shade of red. A touch of blue. A sparkling yellow. A splash of magenta. Everything. She spun, she spun, she pun. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">And she stopped.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">She felt gravity began to take hold of her. Her arms were throbbing. She must have hit some kind of pavement. </div><div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">"Open your eyes." a deep, heavy voice whispered in her ear. </div></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Al obeyed. She didn't expect what she was seeing. A land of balloons. Of rainbows, of rain. Yes, it was raining something that looked like paint, but didn't tint Al's body as it hit her. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">He helped her up. Al saw the pavement she hit. It looked like a dance floor.</div><div style="text-align: justify;">"I," he began leaning away from her, making the floor glow as he stepped on each tile, like in one of Michael Jackson's video clip. "am your wildest imagination."</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Al looked around. She saw a desert of canvas on her left. With mountains of charcoal pencils, trees that looked like paint tubes. In her right was a stage, with full band instruments. They smell funny, though. Like... vanilla. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">"I am your simplest thoughts, your most childish wishes." he approached a grand piano on the stage. Stroke a note, creating blitzes of multiple shades. "I am your craziest behavior. Your complicated life."</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">He moved around again, lights followed his every step. And so did she. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">"I am your sanctuary. I am your remedy. I am your <i>pillow</i>." he stopped short, in his typical way, and started walking toward her. "I am you."</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">"But how could you be me if I am me?" Al asked.</div><div style="text-align: justify;">"How could you be you if I am you?" he responded. His cheery voice began to fade. His rigid posture softened. It was almost as if the colors in his clothes were fading. He took Al by the hand, guided her to the nearest hill facing the canvas desert. A tree of paintbrushes standing tall behind them. He asked her to sit down with him. She obeyed.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">"I am your deepest thought, Al. I don't exist unless you think of me. I am here to help you." he said. </div><div style="text-align: justify;">"Help me what?"</div><div style="text-align: justify;">"Understand."</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Al took a deep breath, and as she let go, she drew her eyes off of him, to the sight in front of her. The grand masterpiece of colors, of shapes and sounds, and smells. "What else do I need to understand?" she whispered, feeling the urge to choke back the tears that were about to come out.</div><div style="text-align: justify;">"Me." he answered gently. "Call me whatever you like."</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Al fell silent for a while. "Peter?"</div><div style="text-align: justify;">He smiled cryptically. "That sounds catchy. I'll be your very own Pan."</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">They were silent. They were silent for quite some time. Al was enjoying the cool breeze against her face. How it made her feel like she was underwater. She embraced the smell of sugar and vanilla in the air. The touch of soft grass on her hands. The marmalade sky. <i>It was </i>her sanctuary. <i>It was</i> her wildest imagination. The world of the abstract. Of possibilities. Every possibility on earth, and beyond. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">"How can I come back here?" she felt tears running down her cheeks. </div><div style="text-align: justify;">"Think of me." Peter put his arm around her shoulders. His deep, heavy voice was beginning to get very gentle. "I'll always be here. This is my home."</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Al closed her eyes. </div>Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-67237912834003706172010-03-19T17:48:00.004+07:002010-03-19T18:39:35.699+07:00Pilot.<!--StartFragment--> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Al sticked up her earphones. In the mere knowledge of how this day was just another bad day like she had predicted, she scoffed, picked another song by Paramore and walked. Like always. Rewinding the tape in her head, she played that day’s scenario all over again. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">She woke up.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Had breakfast.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Got a shower.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Put on some cutting-edge outfit to impress her classmates.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">And walked. and walked.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">And walked. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">And played the same old role, the same old smile, the same old pretenses. The day went by, same old Al. She scoffed again, kicked some gravels as she strolled down the narrow path to her house and tried to let it go.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">“Pssst!”</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">She almost couldn’t hear it.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">“Hey!”</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Al stopped short. She removed one of her earphones and looked around. “Hello?” she stretched her ears, trying to listen. Usually, she never had been so bold. Her iPod was almost like her sanctuary, immersing her thoughts in rhymes and loud guitar sounds. Somehow, today was different. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">“Hello? Anybody here?”</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">“Hi!”</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Al almost jumped backwards when she saw him—or it. A tall figure. A very colorful tall figure, was standing in front of her, grinning. It had hair like a very strange rainbow-flavored cotton candy. Its teeth were white, with a hint of pink gloss all over it. It was wearing a suit, a green jacket and yellow trousers. Its big red shoes looked like it belongs to Ronald McDonald. Its posture was… masculine, with a touch of vanity. Maybe it was fair to say that IT was a man. A slender man, bold in appearance but gentle in his gaze. He was standing with his hands behind his back, as if he was holding confettis and was ready to throw them at Al.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">She was uncertain as to how to respond. She just stared.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">“Aren’t you going to greet me back?” asked the man. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">“I only greet whom I know.” Al answered. Her eyes fixed on his dark blue iris. The darkest color she could find in him. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">“Well, what’s your name?” he asked calmly, in a cheery voice, almost like a voice of a seventeen-year-old boy who has just reached puberty. But Al was sure she could detect depth in his tone. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">“Alana.” She said. “Who are you?”</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">“Well,” he started circling her. “<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">I am he as you are he as you are me and we are all together</i>.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Al scowled. “Did you just quote The Beatles to me?”</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">“I don’t know, did I?” he stopped moving, leaning his face against hers.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">“Okay,” Al pulled back, started to walk away. She plugged her earphone back to her left ear and cranked up the volume. She didn’t have time to indulge a mad man.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">But then again, there was something intriguing about him. Something… more. And as she hasten her steps, she could hear a distant voice in her head.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">“We’ll be seeing each other.” A deep, heavy voice. </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Al looked back for the last time, to find that the man was gone. </p> <!--EndFragment-->Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-67815102321951609922010-01-30T23:57:00.004+07:002010-01-31T00:14:19.497+07:00Leaving Pandora.<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://s844.photobucket.com/albums/ab7/kalistacendani/?action=view&current=dropsofblackandwhite.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://i844.photobucket.com/albums/ab7/kalistacendani/dropsofblackandwhite.jpg" border="0" alt="photography" /></a><br /><br />saint-like<br /><br />as I stroll through the last days of term break, I'm beginning to feel the bittersweet sensation. of parting from the boring days i've had, and of greeting new days; scary and chaotic. i guess.. what i really feel is.. dissatisfaction. disappointment. oh well.<br /><br />wash me clean, will anyone? from distant memories of fantasies, of possibilities. as reality begins to show its new dawn, my dreams falter into dusk.<br /><br />i'm keeping them in a tiny little box. where they don't matter anymore. where all they can do is slumber. until one day, maybe one day, i'll come and open the box, walk the walk through the flame again.<br /><br />my visa in Pandora has expired. i'm taking an Ikran out of here. and i'm okay. i will be, at least. ;)<br /></div>Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-53209157362215894562010-01-30T22:15:00.007+07:002010-01-31T22:27:06.666+07:00Nightmares and Dreamscapes<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://s844.photobucket.com/albums/ab7/kalistacendani/?action=view&current=marmaladeevening-1.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://i844.photobucket.com/albums/ab7/kalistacendani/marmaladeevening-1.jpg" border="0" alt="photography" /></a></span><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size:85%;">the sky that afternoon was so lovely I decided to get out on the street bare feet just to get a shot at it. </span><br /><br /><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:100%;"></span>Nightmares and dreamscapes.<br />What do they even mean? Are they fragments of yourself, trying to get out? Or divine interventions?<br />What does it mean, when you dream about something so often you forgot to keep count? Does it mean that you want something so much that it affects your subconscious? Or was it just a fragment of the things you think about right before you go to sleep?<br />Dreams and dreams themselves are reminders.<br />Of what you've forgotten.<br />Of your wants and needs.<br />Of the things you want to forget.<br /><br />Of the things you've missed, and the things you're missing.<br />Of something.. slightly out of reach.<br /></div></div>Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-22803295722203850952009-12-25T22:50:00.002+07:002009-12-25T22:52:48.536+07:00In Knowing What I Had and Being Forced To Let It Go<div style="text-align: center;">it's like.. finding the right shoes like it's tailor-made for you. and yet.. you can't afford it.<br /></div>Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-16866613187333846072009-09-25T22:38:00.003+07:002009-09-25T22:45:51.399+07:00Yang.<div style="text-align: justify;">It's been a long time since I've seen her like this. Glowing with different sets of colors, vibrant and rich. She's passionate, I could see it in her eyes. And the man standing behind her could barely sense this. He's like this tiny box, unfitting for her spreading blasts of colorful beams. It just feels wrong. And I could see, in glimpses that she's feeling rather unsatisfied. His humble gestures were no match to her brilliance. She's an angel--no, a faerie--on a short leash, unable to fly.<br /></div>Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-79070687994701387282009-09-21T21:32:00.005+07:002009-09-21T22:05:52.939+07:00I'm In Love with My 2-year-old Nephew<div style="text-align: justify;">Oh wow, I just got home from Bintaro. Just visited two houses of my relatives. I met my favourite nephew today, his name is Carlo. He's only 2 years old but man, he can take my breath away. :D We didn't get along quite well at first, he kept running off from me. But once I have my mom's digicam in my hand, we became best buddies. But take this, most toddlers like their pictures taken. Not Carlo. He loves taking pictures. He got really high when he clicked the shutter and the flash went off. Trouble was, he put his fingers on the lens so all you got is red-ish pictures.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzHslFMh6beVPXoLiC8wNqIKE5TCb-ZGGRccIB754MXb0hm8hMuBPV9qqzEhexzaSolORQBrT4v5HnHc4HmwYbwxMAaP423nCyXYjfdOraEPk_lOTVWJuam7WGA_tF6ds9BNyiJhVvrq4/s1600-h/P9210364c.jpg"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 199px; height: 152px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzHslFMh6beVPXoLiC8wNqIKE5TCb-ZGGRccIB754MXb0hm8hMuBPV9qqzEhexzaSolORQBrT4v5HnHc4HmwYbwxMAaP423nCyXYjfdOraEPk_lOTVWJuam7WGA_tF6ds9BNyiJhVvrq4/s320/P9210364c.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5383936629249595762" border="0" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEitHlafjn-1tN9E65bmHmMAfMBz1UZq5nGyYkFoKwx4tvHxsGqN-w2bsFPEYuynrqgkvZsygkKlvDb3TRSr-JggE3VtXfwDLicurr2lMhyguucHhucrTDxwep04z9N3ofjp4SlqJ-CHThQ/s1600-h/P9210369c.jpg"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 203px; height: 152px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEitHlafjn-1tN9E65bmHmMAfMBz1UZq5nGyYkFoKwx4tvHxsGqN-w2bsFPEYuynrqgkvZsygkKlvDb3TRSr-JggE3VtXfwDLicurr2lMhyguucHhucrTDxwep04z9N3ofjp4SlqJ-CHThQ/s320/P9210369c.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5383936182229128914" border="0" /></a><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /><span style="font-size:78%;">that's him, and one of the pictures he took</span></span><br /></div><br />Unlike other 2-year-olds who keeps whining and weeping all the time, he didn't cry ONCE this evening. He just kept running around, showing everybody his daddy's car, comparing it to the cars he saw in a magazine, learning new words and practically absorbed everything I taught him. The funny thing was when I pointed a picture of Noordin M Top on Tempo Magazine and I asked him who it was, he answered "Papa."<br />It's fatalistic to mistake a crazy terrorist for your father.<br /><br />Today I'm reminded of how much I've missed out. I love my family. Both sides. My father's side, well, they're more relaxed. I can connect with them in no time at all. They don't gossip much and they don't ask the exact same questions each year we see each other. Well, some of 'em don't. The old ones still do. My mom's family are mostly women so you know what you'll get. But I'm a bit closer to them so I know almost everyone.<br />They all have their kinks but, hey, whose family doesn't? I find myself making more effort to communicate with them and the more I do, the more I enjoy being around them. Well, maybe once or twice a year is the perfect amount to see that big of a family. You really get to like them. Spend more time than that, you might get irritated.<br /><br />I think I'm lucky. In a way.<br /><br /><br />On the ride home, seeing the streetlamps of Pondok Indah, I was reminded of a fragment of my past. Hmm. Then I thought about Le Babouin. I miss him so much I could die.<br /></div>Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-25539873295436142242009-09-21T11:17:00.005+07:002009-09-21T11:38:03.427+07:00Surgical.<div style="text-align: justify;">It's a little past eleven and already the sun is searing hot. And I mean ho-oott! Second day of Syawal, I've been busied all morning with houseworks and Murakami. Yep, I finished the Murakami. What do I think of it? Hmm. Otherworldly, I guess. Reading his book is like exploring through a series of subconscious experiences, like being in one of my dreams where everything's distorted but you can see a lot of different things in there. Every emotion is projected a certain way. Like this dark corner of yourself you never thought you have but you always see when you're sleeping. When everything else is dark. That's how I feel about Murakami. One of my friends once mentioned about how he couldn't seem to enjoy Murakami's novel because he couldn't find closure in the end. Maybe that's what it is. It left you.. lingering. Like when you find yourself looking through the window to an open sky and just stay there for a couple of minutes without any thought whatsoever, as your eyes began to get unfocused and everything else around you blurred out. You thought you were waiting for something to appear, but you settled just by gazing absently.<br /><br />Yes, it got me this emotional. I don't know. I think I need this kind of reading. Not just meaningless tweets or obligatory news stories. Makes me wanna write. :)<br /><br />Today I might be doing my round of silaturahmi. Visiting relatives, driving around the empty streets of Jakarta. Maybe later I'll drop by to the nearest bookstore and go grab Dan Brown's new fiction. Hmm. Another conspiracy story. Nice. I can't wait to go on an adventure with Robert Langdon again.<br /><br />I'm in a crossroad. I think I can feel myself building new walls, slowly but ever so sure. I feel the presence of Ms. Cristina and Ms. Yang again. They've been gone for a while, but now they're back. Arguing again. I hate them. I want them to go away.<br /><br />Yang : But you need me, Cristina. You need me now more than ever.<br /></div>Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-36905457046130966952009-09-19T22:26:00.002+07:002009-09-19T22:32:30.415+07:00Victorious.And at last.. here we are. The end of Ramadhan, in the eve of victory. The time we always spend with our family. The time when I have to drag myself to my kitchen and make myself useful. The noisy night, with a bunch of kids praising God on the speaker. The most familiar time. Blissful.<br /><br />So with this, needless to say more, I just wanna ask your forgiveness, for my misdemeanors, my false presumptions, my thick head, my sharp tongue, .. my wrong doings.<br /><br />Cheers,<br />Kalista Cendani<br /><br />PS. I might do a feature on this event, probably post it on UPIU. wish me luck!Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-33093499186471912662009-09-18T22:57:00.002+07:002009-09-18T23:46:39.533+07:00How to Force Myself Out of Misery.Hello. I just got home from a movie in Djakarta Theater with Le Babouin. Funny movie. Entertaining, despite the fact that we got there late and I was distracted most of the time. No. NOT doing "stuff". Something else.<br />On the way home, for the 700th time, we got a flat tire. A screw screwed into the tire mercilessly, creating a bang. So we pulled over and started to look for a tukang tambal ban. We found one, rather quickly too. As I look around, I noticed something. Hey, isn't that a tombstone? There's another one. And another one. And another one. Oh. That's a graveyard. That oughta be rich. Ha. But no, nothing incidental.<br /><br />Murakami update : getting interesting. I think I'll finish it in a couple of days.<br /><br />I feel rather down tonight. Le Babouin is going away for holiday and I'm kinda left with a trail of pain. Sometimes I think to myself : how did I get into this? Lately, the pain has become unbearable. And I HATE BEING THOUGHT OF AS SOMEONE STUPID. I'm not stupid. I know more than everybody thinks I do. It's just weird. It's like biting your lips to endure the pain, but it's still there. It got worse and the cut got deeper.<br /><br />I don't know. Maybe I just want someone to say :<br />"Even though you stay quiet, I can tell you're crying. And I'm sorry."Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-63585528373373661772009-09-17T19:56:00.004+07:002009-09-17T20:36:39.101+07:00Today I Lay on a Stack of Hay.First and foremost, I think I need to warn you about the randomness of this post. It might be severe. My mind is all over the place right now but I've made a vow to myself that whenever I feel the urge to write, I'll write. So don't say you haven't been warned.<br /><br />YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED.<br /><br />Okay, update on the Murakami project. Loving it. So far, at least. I love how he writes and makes the monotony of everyday life feels so... upbeat. I think I've chosen the right title for my first Murakami novel : Dance Dance Dance. My kind of pleasure. Literature and the illusion of music. Hmm.<br /><br />I've been enjoying my life a little bit more. Though there's a few hick-up know and again, most of them are concerning my love life. But well, I should be able to cope.<br />Hmmmm. I love fresh couples. I love young loves. Young, not in the context of age, but rather in the novelty of it. I love seeing people blush when they meet someone they have a crush on. How they couldn't stop talking about it even though I've explicitly told them to (no, it's not you, R. i love hearing your stories. They're magical). Sometimes I feel envious. This is how I recognize my longtime disease : Needingnewsparkizoma.<br /><br />Random, random, random.<br />Let's see, what did I do today? 'Been sleepy all morning. I felt angry most of the day, I don't know why (or actually I know why but maybe I was exaggerating). 'Buka Puasa' with my Baboon and my family. Yes, I don't exactly like the term "break-fasting" it's like.. morning time meal. Ha. Doesn't suit me very well. That's about it. Starting to feel like my life's a big joke, but I got over it. I'm writing, aren't I? That's my purpose in life. To write.<br /><br />I love reading Murakami in between classes and while waiting for the bus. Gives me solitude.<br />I hate traffic in Jakarta these days. Makes me wanna eat myself alive from toe to head (toe first because if I eat my head first I don't get to eat my feet).<br /><br />That's all about today.<br />Tomorrow I'm gonna be missing Le Babouin.<br /><br />'Till later.Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-35492655491995703332009-09-15T20:24:00.004+07:002009-09-15T20:54:58.544+07:00On Being Forced Out of Love and Appreciating Everything Before They're Lost.<div style="text-align: justify;">It's the second day I've been trying to read one of Murakami's classics. Hmm. No, I wouldn't say the book is hard to digest, but I merely need more time to read it. Like, really some alone time. I think it's gonna turn out great.<br />I realized a strange thing back when I was strolling through the book store with my family : I've always wanted to read Jeffrey Eugenides' "Middlesex". That title always comes up at the top of my mind whenever I was planning to go to the bookstore, but somehow, it always ended up in the bottom of the stack of my reading choices and eventually I bought something else instead. Hm. I never knew why.<br /><br />Alright. I guess I know what the topic of the day would be : LOVE. Corny, tacky and abstract, love. After reading one of my friends' post about how wonderful it is to be in love, and in retrospect read my post about how it is to be forced out of love, I gained some interesting insights.<br /><br />Being in love,.. isn't necessarily blinding as people said it would. Yeah, all we see are flowers and rainbows and goofy stuff. Hear this, if we all were born a saint--a purist--then people are all essentially good, right? I think being in love, is actually the ultimate eye-opening phenomena that's ever happen to us. For a moment, a week, a year, or in some cases a lifetime, we see the best of someone and in effect (normally, that is), we try to bring out the best of ourselves. And I think that's a good thing. Living for 20 years listening to news about murder, theft, riots, unsafe neighbourhoods, I think I was forced to understand that people can be bad. People are bad. It's exhausting. Like, you have to look over your shoulders every 2 minutes, you have to maneuver your moves into society so you can decide who you can trust and who you can't. It's like a never-ending effort that never quite works anyway. Our spouses still cheat on us, our parents lie, our friends talk about us behind our back, I mean what's the point?<br /><br />Being in love, I think is a gift. Because for that period of time, you can become the most positive person you can be. The only misery might be your struggle to be the best. That struggle, that fight, worth more than you can think.<br /><br />Being in love is a process. Not a destination.<br />If only.. we can learn to fall in love with each other just a little bit more, don't you think the world would be just a little bit better?<br /></div>Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-73423253512483787942009-09-13T20:08:00.005+07:002009-09-13T21:00:31.044+07:00On Being Forced Out of Love and Not Being Able to Do Anything.<div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHJhlC3SPqFkqlMPFge6eIpfYzGIfPlovlzrOmN9i41HddIpdFf-HWe_JtUnIRt52b90Co1HSAAf14fDTXrLQ4E2T-CtLSMeeC7G2Rg90Md4KxHhZe9dlZ_tZxIb1Oo0njdTLlAT-YlUE/s1600-h/crawl.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 218px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHJhlC3SPqFkqlMPFge6eIpfYzGIfPlovlzrOmN9i41HddIpdFf-HWe_JtUnIRt52b90Co1HSAAf14fDTXrLQ4E2T-CtLSMeeC7G2Rg90Md4KxHhZe9dlZ_tZxIb1Oo0njdTLlAT-YlUE/s320/crawl.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5380951396587274082" border="0" /></a><br /></div>Do you know the feeling when you're really devastated you can't even cry anymore? All you can do is to keep breathing, and feel every fragment of yourself vanishes as you let that last breath go. It's like giving up, but by force. It's like losing you beliefs for yourself and everything around you. Like you finally realized, the happy ending you wanted isn't for you.<br /><br />As you breathe, and you breathe, and you breathe for so long it's like you're going numb. Except for that tiny tingling hint of pain you feel in every joint in your body that keeps you longing for a painkiller. That keeps the urge of crying without a single drop of tear exists.<br /><br />It's like losing your options when you're ready to choose.<br />Like loving someone, and lose.<br /><br /><br />... and in the end, you alone are going to feel what you feel. Until your body crumbles, as you watch your soul.. walk away.Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-82792844842543354192009-09-12T09:16:00.003+07:002009-09-12T09:26:53.937+07:00Filosofi Gulakok kosong rasanya kata-kata itu<br />seperti icing sebuah cupcake yang meskipun di sayang-sayang nantinya akan habis juga.<br />lalu harus dimakan atau nggak sih?<br />icing itu kan cuma kumpulan gula, dengan bentuk dan warna<br />tapi memang hanya gula.<br />pemanis.<br />seperti gulali di Fatahillah<br />dimasukkan mulut, dirasakan manisnya, tapi cepat sekali hilangnya.<br />lalu coklat<br />coklat susu. hmmmm. ups. ternyata coklat itu pahit kan?<br /><br />jadi sebenarnya buat apa?<br />kalau pemanis itu cuma tipuan yang berlangsung sebentar?<br />hanya seperti gula kah?<br />yang menurut lidahku juga bukan makanan yang friendly.<br />atau seperti seporsi makan siang 4 sehat 5 sempurna?<br />sehat, enak, beragam, dan melengkapi satu sama lain.<br /><br /><br /><br />PS : ya, gue lagi puasa. jadi begini.Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-90186082991858656472009-09-07T12:24:00.001+07:002009-09-07T12:27:01.974+07:00sweet cakes and milkshakes.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjD6uBjTb8xyuHtwpu4Q-eTE0PA-AyprtZGoUvUjNE7xKZWXw8wj8ar-j_dvYq-G0XQtYitej2Ta-hJee86dACyr739JAZFKKfjfp5LGDzMrwIT_7_eQ4UM0PdK_HRIuxmnK4qxgHfdEFE/s1600-h/monday+.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 374px; height: 250px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjD6uBjTb8xyuHtwpu4Q-eTE0PA-AyprtZGoUvUjNE7xKZWXw8wj8ar-j_dvYq-G0XQtYitej2Ta-hJee86dACyr739JAZFKKfjfp5LGDzMrwIT_7_eQ4UM0PdK_HRIuxmnK4qxgHfdEFE/s320/monday+.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5378592422780152338" border="0" /></a><br />it's monday morning and i'll be missing you a whole week. say hi, dear, to my new blog. :)Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-64415268676371375152009-08-24T20:27:00.002+07:002009-08-24T20:42:02.443+07:00O Creativity, Where Art Thou?It's 20.29 in my Mac's clock, I've just come home from a movie and dinner with my loved ones. The house is really quiet. Most of my family have gone to the mosque, I guess. Hm. I think I've never been this alone in my house. It's nice, sometimes. I don't hear noises from my brother's computer, or the sound of tv blaring from the living room below. It's like I'm in a quiet corner of my mind, absorbing the solitude.<br />Hmmm. I miss writing. It's been a while since I wrote anything but complaints. I want to write something decent, something joyous--if not rich, something.. alive. Maybe I should start a journal. Yes, a diary, a new one. And maybe vow to myself that I won't turn it into another garbage disposal. Like this blog, for instance. It started as a media for me to write anything I wanted. Now all you can find here is just complaints. Endless rant of how miserable my life is, while it actually isn't.<br />I want to be.. creative, again. I want to open my mind to the sound of the wind; the gentle night breeze and not complain about the heat. Like a scene in The Matrix where Neo learned to jump over buildings. I want to jump over rivers, oceans. I want to do the impossible.<br />I want my mind to be free.Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-17450727962370686192009-08-18T00:33:00.001+07:002009-08-18T00:34:49.288+07:00Fact.Have you ever noticed that when you're crying alone, your body feels colder and after you're finished, you have this big urge to pee? Everytime. I don't know why.Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-72530255522217373612009-08-17T22:39:00.003+07:002009-08-17T22:46:27.902+07:00Wishful Thinkingsometimes I wish I had a big brother so I can lean on him whenever I'm sad.<br />sometimes I wish I had a little sister with whom I can make dolls with.<br />sometimes I wish I had better skill as an artist.<br />sometimes I wish I could sing.<br /><br />other times I wish I was taller.<br />other times I wish I had tidier bedroom.<br />other times I wish I wasn't me.<br />other times.. I wish I wasn't as lonely as I feel.<br /><br />but sometimes, I just wish to be myself, free of expectations, living life the way I wanted.<br />sometimes I wish, I could be ugly and people still love me.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />hhhhh...<br />sometimes I wish I wasn't this selfish--or whiny.Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-41712893745772964362009-08-02T09:17:00.003+07:002009-08-02T09:28:40.990+07:00Pandora's Box<div style="text-align: justify;">Oh, heck. I've been holding in the urge to complain for quite some time and face it, I'm not perfect. My life isn't.<br />You know, I do really feel like I'm Alice. Lost in a world she doesn't understand, bitching and complaining, and sounding like a snob, bossing around every weird creature she comes across. Like Crazy Mad-Hatter who thinks everyday's worth celebrating for the vague reason that it's NOT his birthday. Maybe I should do that. Celebrate the days I feel unloved.<br />Oh, how I reach this crazy state of discomfort--yet again? I just wanna eat my body alive, you know. Yeah, and watching "His Just NOT That Into You" is clearly not helping at all. Now I just wish I have an Alex around so I can ask him things I should know about a man. So unrealistic, for I know every man is as good as jerks like he said, and he's just gonna be one of them anyway.<br />I've never been this harsh in my posts before,... or have I? Ah, what do you care? You're just a server, you can't talk back. Anybody who reads this probably just has nothing better to do and they're not gonna talk back either.<br />Well, what do you know? I guess this is my way of celebrating my crappy day. Which is pretty much 364 days in a year. Not to exaggerate. This is just how low I feel.<br /></div>Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-958375596756507559.post-21428475364607647462009-07-21T13:07:00.003+07:002009-07-21T13:19:53.237+07:00Dum Dum DumBrowsing through my older posts, I came to realize that they have become so much more selfish. Everything in them is all about me, a series of endless and bottomless complaints. In effect, <span style="font-style: italic;">I</span> became more selfish. I hate this part of my life. The part where everything seems to be wrong, and what I do always end up hurting someone.<br />This is not me. I was vibrant, carefree, sweet in my own way (as people around me would say). I march to no one else's drums, and I loved it. What have I done to get to this point? Another mistake? The same one, perhaps?<br />I used to be selfless. I know it. But lately all I think about is me and how I don't get enough of what I want. Is this supposed to be like this? Because if it is, I wanna go. No, not run. Just maybe take a step back in intention of taking 2 steps forward.<br />Like this sweet little dance we do. Don't you think we should change the music now?Kalista Cendanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01519906136911067303noreply@blogger.com0